How do we make everyone happy? "Cool kids" tango marathons and talks on exclusivity inclusivity.

With so many people and so many events, there seems to be enough for every taste of tango. Yet many people are feeling outside of "the cool kids club" when they don't get accepted into certain events based on who you know, or how talented you are. Ouch. It feels really hard to make everyone happy. If you're a well connected and great dancer, your choice of dancing events greatly increases. Is this fair / right? How do we tackle the needs for advanced dancers or micro communities to connect without making people feel left out? Is it an impossible task? And even if you are attending these events, how do you make people still feel included once inside the bubble? Organizers struggle with this conundrum, and have lots to share about how they create events and for whom, and why. Join in and chat with us! Maybe you have great ideas as well? :)